143 Alphabet Dating Ideas: Fun Ways to Date A to Z

Looking for new ways to spice up your date nights? This is the ultimate guide to alphabet dating ideas, with dates from A-Z! 

I’m a huge believer that no matter how long you’ve been with someone, you should never stop dating them (yes, even if you’re married)! My fiance and I have been together for over six years, and there have definitely been times where we’ve gotten waaaay into routine – aka sticking to your typical dinner and a movie thing every week. To mix it up, we’ve been trying alphabet dating! 

If you haven’t heard of alphabet dates, it’s where you and your partner plan a date around an activity that starts with each letter of the alphabet – from A-Z. It’s such a fun way to actually break out of your routine and try new things, because you’ll inevitably have to get creative! Whether you’re dating, engaged, or deep in your cozy relationship era, alphabet dating is the perfect excuse to spend more intentional quality time together 🙂 And if you’re looking for a challenge, try completing the list of A through Z in 26 weeks (aka try to do one each week!) 

This post is ALL about alphabet dating ideas. 

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DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH A

#1. Amusement park

I LOOOVE roller coasters – going to a theme park is such nostalgic date idea AND perfect for kicking things off this list!!

#2. Art gallery

If you’re looking for something a bit more relaxed, going to an art gallery together would be perfect for lots of quiet time to chat.

#3. Afternoon tea

Going for tea is one of my favorite romantic date ideas 🙂 How cute is it to try new teas and afternoon biscuits?

#4. Arcade

Arcades are the perfect way to channel some of your competitiveness (DDR battle? Skeeball?) OR work together to collect tickets and trade them in for something fun!

#5. Aquarium visit

Great idea for sea lovers 🙂 There’s something magical about being surrounded by the blue glowing water and sea life swimming around. Like you’re in your own underwater bubble together!!

#6. Apple picking

If you’re starting this challenge in the fall… such a good idea! Cute pics + cider donuts + basket full of apples = peak fall vibes.

#7. Antique hunting

Give yourselves $10 and see who can find the quirkiest treasure. 

#8. Archery range

Tap into your inner Katniss haha and see who’s got better aim!! 

#9. Axe throwing

Okay this one’s a little chaotic and maybe dangerous – but the kind of date where you can laugh the whole time and cheer each other on!

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH B

#10. Bike ride

Pick your fav park or trail and go on a bike ride!! A great way to explore and be in the great outdoors together.

#11. Board game night

My partner and I are suckers for a good board game! Pandemic is a fun co-op game!!

#12. Beach bonfire

A bonfire at the beach on a summer night feels so magical. Sound of the ocean, smell of salty water, cuddling up with blankets… love. Don’t forget the smores!!

#13. Bowling

Classic but a goodie! Also a good one for double-dates!

#14. Brunch date

Saturday brunch dates are one of the best ways to kick off the weekend. Pair it with a farmers market and it’s chef’s kisss

#15. Botanical garden stroll

Botanical gardens are a great place to reconnect with both nature and each other 🙂

#16. Bookstore date

Go to your nearest bookstore and pick out cute books that the other person likes! Save this one for a rainy day.

#17. Brewery hopping

Lots of cities have breweries that are concentrated in one area so you can hop around tasting rooms.

#18. Baking night

Channel the Great British Baking Show (could even put it on for some ambiance) and pick a new recipe to try together! Best part of this is you’ll have yummy treats to eat obvi

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH C

#19. Cooking class

Learning something new together is always fun! Cooking especially, since you’ll be able to come home with a recipe you can remake.

#20. Comedy show

Laughing till your face hurts = underrated intimacy hack. You could either go in person or enjoy right at home w a standup bit!! Adam Sandler would approve.

#21. Candle-making

Going to a candle-making bar is such a fun experience! You get to smell all the scents, figure out which would mix best, and then make your own scent together.

#22. Christmas lights drive

The absolute BEST holiday season date idea – and it’s free (if you have a car!). Bonus points if you bring hot cocoa for the ride.

#23. Cookie-decorating

Also a great holiday season date (although there’s never a bad time to decorate cookies). Grab your fav frosting flavors, food coloring, and sprinkles and have fun!

#24. Concert

Outdoor concerts are my absolute favorite summer date! There’s something about being in a crowd at night, with the summer heat hitting your skin, dancing with your favorite person. Literally the best.

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH D

#25. Dance class

Even if you have absolutely no rhythm, go and take a dance class! It’ll push you out of your comfort zone a little bit and give you an opportunity to connect on a different physical level.

#26. Dance party at home

Okay, if going to a dance class in person isn’t your thing, then do a dance party at home! There are tons of tutorials online you can use or just groove to your fav playlists together.

#27. Dessert crawl

Try all the bakeries in town. Life is too short not to eat 4 slices of cake LOL.

#28. Dog-walking / dog-park date

If you have a fur baby, take them out together! My boyfriend and I love doing this on the weekend – such a great way to get some steps in while making sure our corgi is also happy 🙂

#29. Drive-thru taste-test

Hit up a bunch of drive-thrus and either try the same thing at each one (fries?) and rank them, OR get different items to get a full meal.

#30. Drive-in movie

This alphabet dating idea is a way to spice things up and put a fun twist on movie night! Load up on snacks, drinks, and blankets.

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH E

#31. Eating challenge

There are so many different ways you could do this one. It could be trying everything on the Costco menu. It could be seeing who can eat the spiciest peppers.

#32. Embroidery

This one could be a fun thing to do while you have a movie / show on in the background!

#33. Etsy DIY kit night

If you both are craving something crafty, there are tons of DIY kits on Etsy you can try together!

#34. Escape room

Put your teamwork (and communication skills) to the test. This can definitely be a challenge!!

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH F

#35. Food truck crawl

Food trucks are the best for quick bites, especially if you find a food truck park! Go and taste-test tacos, fries, and dumplings like it’s your job.

#36. Fishing

Could either be a chill day at the lake or find a way to get on a boat out to sea?

#37. Fondue night

Get a little fondue pot (or just a regular pot over the stove will do) and a variety of cheeses and chocolate!

#38. Fireworks show

Find a fireworks show! Easier if you’re doing this the week of New Year’s or July 4th, OR if you’re at Disneyland lol.

#39. Flower arranging

Buy grocery store flowers (highly recommend Trader Joe’s for affordable AND gorgeous blooms) and play florist! Lots of YouTube tutorials you can watch together.

#40. Farmer’s market

The most adorable weekend morning plan. Grab flowers & breakfast together.

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH G

#41. Go-karting

Zoom into your inner child and scream-laugh the whole time!! Go-karts definitely bring out my competitive side!

#42. Garden picnic

So romantic, so easy, and soooo cute for photos. This alphabet dating idea would be great for spring!

#43. Golfing

Putt-putt golf, a full round, indoor swing suites… there are so many ways to do a golf date now!

#44. Ghost tour

If you’re into something spooky, this alphabet dating idea is FOR YOU. You can even find haunted pub crawls!!

#45. Gingerbread house decorating

Gingerbread houses aren’t JUST for Christmas anymore! In recent years, I’ve seen them for just about every holiday: Easter, Halloween, you name it.

#46. Grocery store challenge

Set a timer and each grab 3 surprise ingredients, then cook something together. Could be delicious and a new recipe, or could be a disaster. Either way, fun 🙂

#47. Game night

Game nights are some of my favorite dates – simply bc I’m kind of competitive and love to use my brain haha. If you don’t have any games, grab a deck of cards and start there!!

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH H

#48. Hot air balloon ride

Take your love to new heights (literally LOL). This was how my partner proposed to me, and it was absolutely beautiful 🙂

#49. Harry Potter marathon

Get ready for a weekend marathon (you could technically do it in a day, but 20 hrs is a looot haha)! Queue up all 8 movies, snacks, and a lil blanket fort. Butterbeer too!

#50. Haunted house

I LOOVE spooky season and haunted houses are a MUST.

#51. Hiking

For those who love to sweat together! So fun to explore the mountains and be out in the wilderness.

#52. Horseback riding

If you’re feeling adventurous, this could be a fun way to check out nearby trails!

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH I

#53. Ice skating

Definitely a cute winter date idea! Even if you fall on your butt.

#54. Improv show

This one is on my bucket list! Extra fun if you’re willing to participate and get called on stage 😉

#55. Ikea scavenger hunt

Ikea is a MAZE!! Before you go, write down a list of random and oddly specific things to find or do in the store. Example: take a quick 2-minute nap in one of the beds.

#56. International snacks tasting

We got an international snack box subscription one year and it was SO fun to try new foods!

#57. Ice cream date

Share a cone, try weird flavors, and have your classic rom-com moment.

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH J

#58. Jewelry making

Making jewelry together could be such a fun way to DIY personal bracelets or rings.

#59. Jazz night

Dim lights, smooth tunes, and a glass of wine… immediate vibe. Go get dressed up and soak in the music!

#60. Juice tasting

Find a local juice bar (or just your local grocery store) and get all the flavors! Or if you’re feeling crazy, try health shots instead LOL.

#61. Journal swap

This one is great for a cozy night in. Spend 20 minutes writing a little something for each other in a journal (love letter, fav memory, etc)—then swap and read out loud!

#62. Jet skiing

YES—perfect for the summer months!! Wind in your hair, sun on your face, water on your legs while you race. SO FUN.

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH K

#63. Karaoke night

Karaoke can be SO fun – do it at a bar or at home with YouTube videos! Time to belt out your fav 2000s hits 😉

#64. Kayaking

This one is the perfect mix of peaceful and adventurous! You’ll get a good arm workout, lots of good convo time, and hopefully some sun.

#65. Kickball game

LOL this one is definitely a little different as an alphabet dating idea but it’d be perfect for a double date! Invite friends and y’all can turn it into a lowkey picnic hangout!

#66. Kite flying

Windy day? Perfect. Go get a kite and head to your local park to let your inner child out. So simple and nostalgic!

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH L

#67. Laser tag

If you both are competitive, this alphabet dating idea is for you!! You could either be on the same team or opposite! Plus, sneaking in some cardio.

#68. LEGO night

LEGO has come out with some incredible adult-friendly sets recently!! Check out their botanical collection 🙂

#69. Love-making day

Did I put this one for 69 on purpose? Hahha. Spend a whole day being intimate!

#70. Live music

Whether it’s a full-on music festival or a cute bar gig – this one always hits! Music is such a powerful way to connect with your best friend 🙂

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH M

#71. Massage day

This one is PERFECT after a looong week. Learn how to give each other the best massage and take turns – or you could go all out and book an actual couples massage!

#72. Museum trip

Museums are such a great place to go and learn together. They spark the best conversation.

#73. Mocktail-making night

This is one of my favorite alphabet dating ideas because mocktails have really come out on the scene recently! Grab some fancy juices, herbs, fruit, and sparkling water. See who can make the best mocktail.

#74. Mall challenge

Set a budget and go shopping for each other! A definitely good way to see what your partner thinks is your style or what they want you to try.

#75. Movie marathon

Pick a theme (hi Walt Disney Pictures) and go all in – matching socks, cozy blankets, and maybe… even a drinking game?

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH N

#76. Noodle-making class

I personally love getting messy and making things with my hands! Plus, having a delicious pasta to eat after is a huge perk of this date.

#77. Night at the theater

Big musical fans? Go see a show at your local theater! Big productions are always a hit and if that’s out of your budget, you could see if there are smaller plays hosted by student groups too 🙂

#78. National landmark visit

This alphabet dating idea is great for the adventurers out there!! Click here for a link to the National Landmarks near you 🙂

#79. Night market stroll

Ahhh I LOVE night markets!! So romantic wandering through the booths and trying new foods when it’s dark outside.

#80. Nerf gun battle

It’s time to bring out your inner child and do a nerf gun fight! You could set up targets or just chase each other around. If you’re doing it at home… make sure to put away anything fragile!!

#81. Netflix roulette

As much as I love and appreciate streaming services, choosing a movie sometimes feels like SUCH a burden. Like decision fatigue and option overload!! So take that out of the picture and just close your eyes and scroll through a category. Watch whichever it lands on 🙂

#82. Nintendo night

Time to whip out the Switch!! There are so many good classic games you can play together – Mario Kart, Super Smash Bros, or Animal Crossing. My favorite now is Stardew Valley, which is super cozy!!

#83. Nature walk

This date idea is so simple but super grounding. Bring a playlist or just talk! Low-effort, low-cost, but sometimes the simplest is the best.

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH O

#84. Observatory visit

If stargazing isn’t enough, go to your local observatory and get a closer look at the stars and planets together! Seriously a rom-com moment.

#85. Ocean dip

There’s a reason “long walks on the beach” is such a trope! I love a good date near the ocean – something so serene about being in or near the water together.

#86. Origami night

Looking for something to do that’s crafty together but also super lowkey? Grab some cute paper and learn how to fold lil creations together! There are tooons of guides online!

#87. Open mic night

Find a local spot for poetry, music, or comedy! This one’s perfect for a first date since I’m sure looots of convo starters to come from this one.

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#88. Outdoor movie night

Definitely on my date night bucket list to set up a projector and hang a bedsheet in the backyard. Like how cute to cuddle under the stars watching a movie together??

#89. Obstacle course challenge

LOL this alphabet dating idea is for competitive couples. Think: ninja warrior vibes or a ropes course!! Super fun way to get active together.

#90. Online class night

There are SO many good online classes now! Cooking, painting, cocktail-making, astrology 101, magic… you name it. I’m always a big advocate for learning together!

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH P

#91. Picnic

This alphabet dating idea is a classic. Grab a cute blanket, pack sandwiches, fruit, and maybe a lil charcuterie board if you’re fancy! Scope out a spot in your fav park and plop down for some good food and conversation 🙂

#92. Paint & sip night

Whether you decide to actually go to a paint and sip class OR just pour your own fav drinks at home and follow a Bob Ross tutorial, this date idea is always a good time.

#93. Puzzle night

During the deep winter months, we always love to bring out a puzzle, light a candle that smells delicious, turn on our favorite playlist, and just chill together. Just make sure to take breaks so you’re not hunched over for 12 hours like us LOL.

#94. Pottery painting

Whenever we have an itch to do something out of the house, creative, but also chill, we go to a paint-a-plate shop nearby! I love how there’s a huge variety of things to paint: mugs, bowls, trinket dishes or even cute little clay sculptures of animals.

#95. Pumpkin patch (or carving!)

Such a great date idea for fall! Wander around the patch, take cute pics, then bring your pumpkins back to carve! Bonus points if you add hot cider and a scary movie.

#96. PowerPoint night

This one has been such a trend recently! If you’re not too sick of making presentations at work, take those skills and make mini presentations about ANYTHING. Some fun ideas: a silly conspiracy, why you should get a dog, what your hottest takes are.

#97. Personality quizzes

Spend the afternoon taking personality quizzes together! Most of them don’t take a long time, and you’ll learn a LOT about each other. They’ll spark great conversation and connection.

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH Q

#98. Question game night

Sometimes the best dates are simply just having time to chat with your partner. There are TONS of card games that are full of conversation starters you can get, OR just check out some of my articles on questions to ask!

#99. Quick overnighter

With how busy life can get, it’s easy to push off having time away together. Plan a super quick overnight trip somewhere close (it could literally be a cute hotel in the city over). Spend a night outside of your routine and take advantage of those hotel amenities!! Indoor swimming, hot tub, and room service hehe.

#100. Quiz each other night

This alphabet dating idea is a fun twist to trivia. Instead of trivia about random facts, quiz each other on yourselves! Come up with a list of questions like “what’s my favorite coffee shop drink” or “how do I like my steak” and take points! Could learn something along the way 😉

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#101. Quirky gift exchange

If either of your love languages is “gifts,” then this could be a fun date idea! Give each other a budget, go to a store together, and pick out a quirky gift for each other. The goal is to get something that is meaningful but also weird LOL.

#102. Quiet café hangout

In need of some chill time together? Go to a vibey cafe nearby, grab your fav drinks, and just chat, read, or people-watch. One of my favorite ways to spend a slow weekend morning.

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH R

#103. Road trip

Road trips can be incredibly fun when you’re spending time with someone you love!! My partner and I literally drove from Chicago to Seattle and it was 3 days of sharing good music, munching on yummy snacks, and talking about random shit haha. Such a fun adventure!

#104. Rock climbing

Whether you hit up a bouldering gym or try it outdoors, this one’s perfect if you wanna be active together!

#105. Roller skating

Lace up your skates and hit the rink (or the boardwalk if you’re feeling brave). This alphabet dating idea is super fun and flirty. You’ll feel like you’re in a retro rom-com!!

#106. Record store hop

Have a record player or just want to look at vintage music? Visit a few local record shops and pick out albums for each other!

#107. Rooftop drinks

Rooftop drinks on a clear night feel so sexy. Get dressed up, find a bar or restaurant with the best view, and enjoy a drink together!

#108. Reading night

This one’s for all my bookworm couples! Grab your favorite books (or start the same one!), make tea, and read side by side.

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH S

#109. Star-gazing

There’s just something about laying under the stars with your favorite person that sounds so incredibly dreamy. Pack a blanket, find a spot with low light pollution, and cuddle. Use a stargazing app if you’re looking to learn a little something!

#110. Spa day

Think candles, oils, face masks, robes, candles… the full at-home spa treatment! Such a relaxing and romantic experience.

#111. Scavenger hunt

This is one of the more creative date night ideas on this list since it’ll take a bit more prep! Create clues and hide them around your house, neighborhood, or city. Add in a prize for more motivation!!

#112. Sunset drive

This is a perfect way to end a summer day. After dinner, hop in the car, play your fav playlist, and chase the sunset. You don’t even have to go to a specific location – just drive and vibe. It’s spontaneous, simple, and feels straight out of a movie.

#113. Sandwich shop crawl

Okay if you’re a foodie like me, you’ll love this alphabet dating idea! Map out a list of a bunch of local sandwich shops, try them out, and rank them like food critics. Italian? Banh mi? Fancy grilled cheese? Best part of this is you have someone to share with.

#114. Silent disco at home

Grab wireless headphones, put on your own synced playlist, and dance together!! Perfect for an apartment building since… zero noise complaints (well, at least not from the music LOL).

#115. Sushi-making night

Roll up your sleeves (literally) and try making sushi together at home! Even if it turns out messy, it’s SUCH a fun process – and you can put allll your favorite ingredients in your rolls.

#116. Scrapbook making

With everything digital these days, I’m a huuuge fan of making physical scrapbooks! Print out some your best photos together and spend a night making a scrapbook and reflect on those memories. 

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH T

#117. Thrift shopping challenge

This could be a fun idea to start out one of your date days: pick out outfits for each other at your local thrift store and wear them all day!

#118. Tasting menu night

Looking for a super fancy date? Make a reservation for a restaurant near you that has a set tasting menu. Alternatively, if you’re on a budget, do a multi-course meal at home! You can each be in charge of different courses. Fancy vibes without leaving the house (and breaking the bank).

#119. Tie-dye together

This is one of my favorite alphabet date ideas for feeling nostalgic! I remember just how excited everyone was for the tie-dye days in elementary school!! Grab some tees, socks, or even pillowcases and have a messy lil art session outside!

#120. Tarot reading

Okay, if you’re into spirituality (or at least think it could be fun to do one time), try tarot reading!! You could go together and get someone to read them for you, or try to read them for each other. On your next date, you can talk about whether or not anything came true LOL.

#121. Tent night indoors

Build a blanket fort or set up an actual tent in your living room! Add fairy lights, snacks, a movie, and cozy blankets. It’s like camping but without the bugs!!

#122. Trivia night

Go to your local bar and do the pub quiz or play a trivia game at home! This is a great alphabet date idea to invite other couples too – just so you have more brains on your team!!

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH U

#123. U-pick farm date

U-pick farms are a great way to get into the season! Go apple picking, berry picking, or flower cutting. Any fresh fruit you find will be sooo much better than Kroger!

#124. Unplugged night

Find your screen time going up?? When things get busy, it’s easy to just sit on your phones or watch TV. So spend a night completely unplugged – turn off all phones, iPads, TVs, etc. Just connect. Light some candles and chat. Or slow dance in the kitchen.

#125. Urban exploring

Spend a day walking around a cool part of your city or a new neighborhood you haven’t been to. Wander into all the shops and small cafes – with no agenda, preferably!

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH V

#126. Volunteer together

Whether it’s an animal shelter, food bank, or community garden, this alphabet dating idea is such a meaningful way to connect! Definitely a must-do if one of your love languages is acts of service.

#127. VHS movie night

Remember VHSs? LOL. Go find an old VHS player, rent some nostalgic movies, and go full throwback. If you can’t find a VCR, just stream an old fav like The Parent Trap and pretend (good enough).

#128. Vision board night

This one is perfect for the beginning of the year! Making vision boards together is a great way to connect on your goals and therefore, help each other achieve them through the year.

#129. Vineyard visit

Spend the afternoon wine tasting at a cute vineyard! Gorgeous views, fancy cheese plates, and a touch of tipsy makes this one a fav alphabet dating idea 🙂

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH W

#130. Walt Disney movie night

Disney classics feel so cozy and comforting. Pick out your favorite childhood films and watch them. Add in themed snacks for extra credit.

#131. Wine tasting

Pop into your local wine bar or vineyard, or even make your own DIY tasting flight at home! Grab a few bottles, print out tasting sheets, and rate them. Pay close attention so you know what bottle to buy for next time!!

#132. Workout class

Getting active together is a great way to do something both for your physical AND emotional health. Try something new like hot yoga, pilates, spin, or even kickboxing!

#133. Water sports day

Go paddle boarding, wake surfing, water skiing – or even just floating in a tube with snacks. Definitely peak date idea for the summer!! Don’t forget sunscreen!!

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH X

#134. Xbox night

Some of our favorite co-op games to play together are Minecraft, It Takes Two, and Ark! 

#135. X-rated movie night

Okayyyy spicy time. Light candles, turn off the lights, and pick a steamy movie (or even just a romance movie with spicy scenes)!

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH Y

#136. Yoga class

Whether it’s hot yoga, a class at your local gym, or even following a YouTube video at home, yoga is a great way to practice mindfulness with your partner!

#137. Yard sale hopping

This is basically a treasure hunt for grown-ups LOL. You never know what you’ll find at yard sales: funky mugs, vintage tees, or fancy old furniture.

#138. Y2K-themed night

Ahh the Y2K nostalgia hits hard! Throw it back with Tamagotchis, Game Boys, old-school playlists, and digital cameras.

#139. YouTube deep dive

Sometimes my partner and I just sit on the couch and get into a spiral of YouTube videos LOL. Pick a random niche (like cruise ship reviews or the history of roller coasters?!) and binge videos together. Surprisingly fun and educational.

DATE IDEAS THAT START WITH Z

#140. Zip lining

Going on a zip line for the first time is EXHILARATING!! Definitely not for the faint of heart but can be a huge bonding activity 🙂

#141. Zoo trip

You. Them. Animals. Snacks. Walking. What more could you ask for? This would be such a fun way to end alphabet dating!!

#142. Zine-making night

If you don’t know what a zine is, it’s essentially just a small handmade book! You can make them about everything and anything (they’re super easy). Spend a night making your own – super cute to dedicate one to your relationship. 

#143. Zodiac compatibility night

Another alphabet dating idea for my spirituality people!! Go full astrology-mode and analyze your birth charts – great conversation starter about your personalities and compatibility. 

Whether you’re planning one letter a week or just going out of order for fun, this list has the best date ideas for all the letters of the alphabet! Alphabet dating is such a unique way to spice things up in your relationship – we all know that it’s too easy to fall into a routine. 

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